Male Escorts FAQ For Women
How much does hiring a male escort cost?
Rates vary greatly depending on the area and the quality of escort desired. In the United States, it averages between $75-200 per hour. In the United Kingdom, rates are £40 – £160 per hour. It is almost always cheaper to ask for the price for the entire evening unless an event or date is guaranteed to only last 1-2 hours and a “finishing time” can be agreed upon before the date.
How long does a date with a male escort last?
The minimum booking time is often 2 or 3 hours and can last for as long as the client is willing to pay. Some escorts have weekend and vacation rates for extended visits.
Who covers the costs of drinks, dinner, travel, etc?
The client usually pays for everything that the date requires, including drinks and tickets. Unless significant travel is involved, the male escort is expected to get himself to and from the date on his own and without any travel expense allotment.
When does the male escort get paid?
He should be paid in full at the beginning of the date, with cash. If the agency handles payment (which is rare), it should be made in full before the date occurs.
Is hiring a male escort easy?
Yes and no. In large cities, it is easy to find reputable escorts. It may be more difficult to find them in more isolated areas, although it is possible to hire an escort to travel to any location for an additional fee. Legally, it can be complicated if sexual relations are involved, so that may make things harder and riskier. Once an agency is found or local male escorts are located, it is easy to hire them.
Is it possible to meet the male escort before hiring?
Yes. The two people should meet in advance to agree on terms, location, meet-up times, and to see if both people are on the same page. If the date is not compatible, no money exchanges hands and nothing is lost.
Is it legal to hire a male escort?
It depends on the location. In the US, UK, and Australia, it is legal to hire a male escort for non-sexual purposes. Prostitution is illegal in many places, so one cannot legally hire an escort for sex.
Can a male escort be fired?
Yes. Unless there is a clause in the contract that specifically requires a partial refund to be given, then the money is already the escort’s and he is simply expected to leave the date. Many beginner escorts offer a free 30-60 minutes to test the waters and then charge nothing if it is not working out.
Can one hire a male escort to (suck toes, give a massage, propose, etc.)?
Yes, although it starts to cross into grey areas if any of those requests are sexual and not all male escorts are willing to do those things. It is best to ask the agency if they can check with various escorts for those requests instead of asking on the pre-date.
Is hiring a male escort ethical/appropriate?
That depends entirely on who you ask. For many people, it is no different than bribing a cousin to attend a wedding instead of going solo. For dates involving sex, the lines blur a lot more, but so long as both parties are consenting adults, then that is up to them (provided it’s outside of the escort’s paid working hours).
Can the male escort take pictures and put them all over the internet?
He could, but he would not likely get any future business, so it would not do him any good. Privacy is standard and expected with this sort of business. If the hiring contract specifically states “no pictures”, it can offer reassurance and legal recourse if something inappropriate happens.
What if more feelings evolve?
Some women choose to hire a male escort only once and then switch to another to avoid this exact issue. If more feelings evolve than what would be expected when hiring a male escort, then the client and customer should discuss it. If both consenting adults are actually feeling these emotions, then a conversation between mature adults should take place. More likely that will not be the case, though, and the woman may decide she needs to stop seeing that particular male escort to avoid getting hurt.